Topics I Cover:

Sexuality

The way sexuality flows in our lives can be a great blessing or upset. Many couples have differences in their libido, needs and desires. For singles there are issues relating to self-esteem and pleasure. When I work with people around their sexuality I always walk carefully to gently bring issues to the light. There is often shame, anger and fear when people start to talk about this intimate part of their lives. There is a connection between what happens in the bedroom and the rest of our lives. Work, stress and our history can bring confusion and frustration to an experience that can be pleasurable and exciting. I am fully accepting of the diversity with people’s sexuality and encourage people to share honestly with myself and ultimately with their partners. One of the important tools that I train people in is learning to communicate honestly in a way that your partner can here. For many people this area is a minefield of potential pain and suffering to speak the truth. One major part is asking for what you want. Saying “I want more of this or less of that” can appear as an obstacle. I have found simple techniques to support clients to be clear and confident in requesting the sex life they desire.

  • Sex Therapy
  • Relationship Counselling
  • Sex Education
  • Erectile Dysfunction
  • Performance Anxiety
  • Premature Ejaculation
  • Delayed Ejaculation
  • Retrograde Ejaculation
  • Anejaculation
  • Painful Ejaculation
  • Gender Identity
  • Male Low Sexual Desire
  • Male Sexual Aversion
  • Mismatched Libidos
  • Female Low Sexual Desire
  • Female Sexual Aversion
  • Low Sexual Arousal
  • Persistent Sexual Arousal
  • Female Orgasm Difficulties
  • Vaginismus
  • Excessive Desire
  • Affairs/Infidelity
  • Divorce/Separation
  • Relationship Difficulties
  • Relationship Enrichment
  • Reproductive Health
  • Cancer & Sexuality
  • STI’s
  • Safer Sex
  • Male Anatomy
  • Female Anatomy

Grief

Grief is an important part of our lives. It is very critical to grieve when someone passes away. If this experience has not been properly honored close to the event then it maybe a major obstacle to happiness. Whether it is the loss of a parent, child, family member or friend, the grieving process needs a safe place to be expressed.

Depression

This is a complicated and debilitating condition. It can be very frustrating and confusing. I have had times in my life when everything was dark and cloudy. I managed to work my way out of that period and have since helped others too. It is possible to walk towards the light, it takes courage and determination. It is also useful to have a peek at what causes this experience so the future can get clearer.

Fatherhood

Being a new father is confusing, demanding and sometimes a lonely business. I have two older kids and I remember the transition to be a parent clearly. Lack of sleep, changing nappies, juggling everyone’s needs and the changing dynamic with your partner. Frustratingly there is no manual for how to live this new life. It can bring up feelings of isolation and despair, there may not be anyone to turn to. I’m here to support and guide new dads in this challenging time. It can be a time of deepening connection and new growth.

Men’s issues

I have been working therapeutically with men for over a decade. My experience of manhood, my reading and guiding other men has given me a comprehensive overview of men’s world. I feel well qualified to act as a guide for man to grow and celebrate being a man. In this shifting world it is sometimes confusing which path to take towards manhood. How to balance relationships with partners, parents and colleagues can be perplexing. I have worked with hundreds of men to attain harmony and happiness in the journey towards maturity.

Anger

Anger management is a key issues for many men and women. For some people it’s how to express less anger, while for others it’s how to safely express more. Often how our parents expressed (or didn’t express) anger will be the blueprint that we adopt as adults. If there is unbalance then we find hurting for the people around us. I have experienced ways to cultivate a safe and healthy manifestation of anger in my life and for others.

Anxiety and Social Anxiety

Worrying about the future and how people think about you can seriously affect your well-being. Society and our upbringing can appear stressful when we see the world. After writing Conscious Relaxation I saw how vital it is to be calm and move gracefully in the world. I collected many techniques and strategies to help me unwind. I also developed a philosophy to support people that wonder about how things can go wrong.

Stress

After writing the book ‘Conscious Relaxation’ I observed how calm I could be and how easy it is to support other people to find a more harmonious path.

Relationships – Couples - Marriage

I have been in a committed relationship for 16 years, lots of that has been on the roller coaster of conflict and joyful love. I feel confident that I can support other couples with their journey.

Family counselling

Family counselling can include any combination of family members. I often see parents and their kids, to help translating between generations.

Adolescents

I worked as a secondary school educator for 15 years. In that time I feel I have learnt about the language, needs and lifestyle of adolescents. I can easily translate between teens and their parents and families.